Eleven clever advice to deal with marital differences

Marital differences such as salt, pepper, and spices in foods

A phrase you always hear but when are the marital differences as well and when do you become like poison in food? When the differences pass peacefully and the marital relationship remains strong and solid, based on friendliness, harmony, love, and respect, and when the verse turns and the marriage becomes like nothing but it becomes a continuation of the right?

 

How the couple can deal with their differences wisely and not lose during their disagreement or even during their small shrines their love and respect for one another.
 

1 - Do not be aggressive attack and do not be aggressive and aggressive and do not be very blaming and do not scream all these things will not solve the problem, but will result in only to get the other party and scream also.
 

2. Silence and non-discussion of the problem is not a sound solution. This idea is not useful when a problem or anger of one of the parties from the conduct of the other must discuss and find a solution to the problem, perhaps silence increases the problem and the sediments within the parties.
 

3 - Be honest with yourself first and know the truth of your feelings and ask your husband as well because this facilitates the discussion and understanding and access to solutions
 

4 - Allow him and yourself some privacy and freedom. Let each of you have his own activities and friends, this builds the confidence of each of you himself.
 

5 - Stay a little apart from each other at intervals as a journey traveling with your family or with friends, this increases the longing and your attachment to each other.
 

6 - Give the time to discuss and talk about any problem that bothers you
 

7 - Do not quarrel or discuss important matters where the difference between you and the young and do not allow your voice to reach them whatever. (I also read: Brawl in front of children is a parental disaster)
 

8 - Do not show the matter in front of the children or the family and maintain your privacy unless the problems worsened significantly, God forbid.
 

9 - Do not leave the session before the solution of the problem if there was a problem What I ask him to set a date for discussion and resolve and do not prolong the matter. If there is a need to think about it, allow him and your soul to do so and have another session, for example.
 

10 - No to talk about divorce and do not make a permanent word in your mouth, "divorced me" and do not allow him to be that word in his mouth "to divorce" or "You did so you divorced" divorce is not a game.
 

11 - Do not involve the children in your dispute to be disputed because he quarrels with Mama or send him verbal messages to him and so on.

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